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by Maris Lemieux
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If there's one thing that takes the fun out
of rush-job sex, it's stress. Adult swingers focusing
on the task, the goal, trying to measure up to some
expectation -- is this going to be better than last
time? or am I losing it? Swingers sexual massage
knocks stress out of the picture. And replaces it
with something bigger.
An orgasm centered in the genitals may offer nice,
sharp pleasure, but an orgasm expanded through the
body is -- well find out for yourself. Sexual massage
moves the focus of orgasm so that it covers the
whole body, stretching Adult swingers lovemaking out in
a sensual and exciting way.
The adult swingers idea of sexual massage comes from Taoist
traditions built around moving energy through the
body. We adult swingers may have heard about this sexual
energy being called chi, but not realized that Taoists
also consider the hurricane chi and the force that
moves the planets chi. Adult swingers Chi is the life-giving
force that comes in many forms. And it can be moved
through the body during sexual massage.
This way, orgasm is a whole-body experience, not
something adult swingers confined to one small mound between
the legs. If you can't get behind the idea of
moving energy, then think of it simply as the power
of touch to get the blood flowing. All kinds of
internal organs can get in on the fun, and as a
result become healthier as you play. And in loosening
up other organs, adult swingers sexual massage creates
a greater flow, body-wide. Greater flow leads to
greater mature swingers orgasm. It's a nicely elder swingers
circular system.
In addition, adult swingers sexual massage will have some
very concrete effects on your foreplay:
1) It slows things down.
Not that you always want to take it slow. But since
the fast way comes more naturally, some of us haven't
had much opportunity to go beyond it.
2) It relaxes.
Many of the "problems" both swinger men
and women encounter in their sex lives (premature
ejaculation, failure to achieve orgasm, etc.) are
caused by stress and tension stored in the body.
3) It builds up sexual energy.
If you can let go and get into the adult swingers massage,
sexual energy circulates more freely, generating
energy you didn't know you had. The more energy,
the bigger the release.
But the proof is in the experience. So, on to getting
started.
You'll want to start your sexual adult swingers massage
with about 10 minutes of what might be called warm-up,
massaging the least sensitive area -- the back.
Not only is this ideal for new lovers, it's
ideal for those hot, horny couples who may otherwise
find themselves "jumping the gun." The
idea is to establish the sense of trust, comfort
and relaxation before arousing sexual energy. The
sexual energy that ultimately comes up will be more
extensive.
Two things the adult swingers person giving a mature swingers
massage must master:
First, whenever you give a sexy swingers massage, try to keep
your posture very straight. In Eastern massage,
you are a channel for the energy that goes back
and forth swingers between you and your partner.
A hunched over channel is a constricted channel.
Second, concentrate on breathing deeply as you touch
your partner's body. Take large, slow breaths.
In this way you can communicate relaxation through
your hands.
Now, have your partner lie on his or her stomach.
Rub your hands together before massaging to build
up warmth and energy. If you're good at visualization,
it's a good time to picture some form of sexual
energy flowing from you to your partner. Picture
a fire in your hands (and if you're real good,
in your naval area). Whether or not your partner
feels any differently as you imagine these energies,
they'll feel the warmth in your hands. Also,
your warmed up imagination can add electricity to
the overall experience. Now for the hands on.
-- Start just below your partner's neck and
push the tips of your fingers, both hands, back
and forth in small cradle motion. Your fingers should
be facing down the spinal column, so it's easiest
to position yourself above the shoulders, near the
head. Gradually move this rocking motion down the
spine until you reach the small of the back. Then
work back up the spine again doing the same thing.
This column is a pathway for sexual energy to follow.
-- Spend time just resting your palm over the two
endpoints of this column: Between the shoulder blades
(just under the neck) and over the tail bone, just
above the butt crack. One hand at a time. Again
as you rest your hand, imagine sending warmth through
to your partner.
-- Then up the ante. In the same place, between
the shoulder blades, drop your balled fists onto
the skin, one at a time, letting them fall lightly
in a rhythmical pattern. This is called percussion.
Use only the force of gravity, left, right, left,
right. This can feel stimulating to your partner
and can put them into a light, positive mood.
--At the lower end of the spine, take the fingers
of both hands and create the rocking cradle motion
(up and down the tail bone) in the valley at the
small of the back. The happy news is that with this
movement you are awakening the genitals.
You can repeat these steps as many times as you
like. And take them as slowly as you like. Each
second spent in this stage builds up energy reserves:
yours, so you'll be even hotter the continued
swingers massage, and your partner's, so they'll
start to feel the first little seeds of hot arousal.
You're building the big one here.
B PHASE. Increase the hint of sex while your partner
is still on his or her stomach.
-- Using your fingertips, start "drawing"
a large square pattern that goes from between the
shoulder blades out to the shoulders, down the sides
(here you can stop, lightly take hold of the skin
and pull outward, stretching the skin), down to
the hips and sideways, across the bottom of the
butt, down between the legs to the perineum (that
small island between genitals and butt hole), where
your two hands should meet. Press them together
and run them upwards through the crack (but not
deeply) and up the spine in two parallel columns.
Repeat the square once again. This time using not
fingertips, but the flats of your hands. Continue
on like this, alternating from fingers to palms,
until meat is tender :) -- or for ten minutes.
-- Now you have worked up to the inner thighs. It's
getting hotter. Start all the way at the ankles
and gradually run your fingers up the inner thighs
to the perineum. At the perineum, press with your
fingertips. Remember to refrain from any movements
that are more sexual than this slight perineum swingers
massage. Save those for later.
-- Swingers massage the butt cheeks by bringing
your fingertips up through the crack, spreading
the cheeks and continuing on out in a circular pattern
that goes to the partner's sides and back under
the butt cheeks to the perineum. Do this for a couple
of minutes -- awakening the bottom.
-- Hold the butt cheeks open as you swingers massage
the perineum with your thumbs in a circular motion
-- a clockwise circle will get the sexual energy
going. A few minutes is good here.
Though this phase is still about opening up your
partner's pathways so that sexual energy can
travel freely, quickly, these movements are obviously
knocking at the door of sexual arousal. The good
part is that these moves encourage the arousal to
take place all over the body, not just in the genitals.
Before having your partner turn over, find out if
he or she feels relaxed, feels warm, feels energized.
Ask for feedback. What sensations are they having?
Hopefully you are feeling some of the same things,
a feeling of being energized, a connection to or
warmth towards your partner, and so forth. When
you are pretty sure that your efforts have brought
both you and your partner to a deeper state of sensitivity
and warmth, it's time to go to work on the front.
[to be continued...]
Build sexual suspense: Practice this part of the
adult swingers massage on its own, till next time.
Take turns, you and your partner, at the giving
and receiving end of the swingers massage.
Big Bang Challenge: If you want to have a really
big bang when you get to the full bodied adult swingers
massage, practice this massage and don't have
sex at all until next week when you can do the complete
swingers massage and go for the gusto.
Word for the week:
The best orgasm is often one you have to wait for.
submitted on 7/14/2004
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